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r/selflove

Developing and deepening the most important relationship there is.. A place for sharing everything to do with developing a deep unconditional love for your self. Share stories, reach out for help and advice, learn with others. Founded 2015 · 346.5K members

349.8K members. The best post we have captured here reached 12.7K upvotes, which works out to 36 per 1,000 members.

36peak upvotes per 1,000 members
349.8Kmembers
12.7Kbest post
567most comments
414posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

73% 17% 8%
Image 73% Text 17% Question 8% Gallery 1%

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

Trying to feel hope

↑ 12.7K 💬 216 image 2025

your problem to solve

↑ 11.5K 💬 464 image 2025

Forgive myself to heal. Forgive others to set myself free.

↑ 11K 💬 296 gallery 2025

This hits hard

↑ 10.6K 💬 44 image 2026

Believe that and it will

↑ 10.6K 💬 150 image 2025

I needed this, figured someone else might too.

↑ 9.2K 💬 102 image 2025

Important to remember

↑ 8.6K 💬 76 image 2025

For anyone who needed to read this as much as I did ✨

↑ 8.5K 💬 92 image 2024

put yourself first

↑ 8.4K 💬 82 image 2025

Sleep well pls

↑ 8.2K 💬 56 image 2024

Communities its size

Within four times the member count either way, so the comparison is fair. Sorted by upside.

r/selflove, in numbers

Answered from the posts ViralHunt holds from this community, not from Reddit's own about page.

What is r/selflove?
r/selflove ("Developing and deepening the most important relationship there is.") describes itself this way: A place for sharing everything to do with developing a deep unconditional love for your self. Share stories, reach out for help and advice, learn with others. It was founded in 2015 and has 346.5K members.
How many members does r/selflove have?
r/selflove has about 349.8K members. ViralHunt has tracked 414 of its posts; the biggest reached 12.7K upvotes, which is 36 per 1,000 members.
What is the most viral post on r/selflove?
"Trying to feel hope" reached 12.7K upvotes and 216 comments in 2025, the highest score among the posts we hold from r/selflove.
What subreddits are similar to r/selflove?
Communities of a comparable size we track: r/Trumpvirus, r/alaska, r/Louisiana, r/popculture, r/Antimoneymemes, r/BlueskySkeets.
What kind of posts do best on r/selflove?
Of the posts we hold, 73% are image posts and 17% are text posts.
When is the best time to post on r/selflove?
Across 414 timestamped posts we hold, the slots whose posts averaged the highest score are Monday at 01:00 UTC (7.5K avg upvotes), Saturday at 02:00 UTC (7.1K avg upvotes), Friday at 10:00 UTC (5.6K avg upvotes). The busiest day is Wednesday. For Reddit as a whole, see the best time to post on Reddit page.
How many upvotes does a post need to reach the top of r/selflove?
The 20th-best post we hold from r/selflove has 7.2K upvotes, so that is roughly the bar for the top twenty. We captured 74 posts from it in the last 30 days.

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Every figure here is what ViralHunt has captured from r/selflove, not everything the community has ever posted. We deliberately do not publish an average score: our sample is weighted toward a community's best posts, so an average would be flattering and wrong. Peak per 1,000 members is computed the same way for every community listed. See how we measure.