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112.4K members. The best post we have captured here reached 118 upvotes, which works out to 1 per 1,000 members.

1peak upvotes per 1,000 members
112.4Kmembers
118best post
190most comments
303posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

62% 35%
Text 62% Question 35% Image 3%

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

Am I overreacting?

↑ 118 💬 94 image 2026

Girlfriends body count has started to freak me out, even though it did not in the beginning

↑ 34 💬 190 text 2026

am i overreacting

↑ 30 💬 86 image 2026

I don’t feel the same way about him anymore after he cheated

↑ 30 💬 11 text 2026

I’m not my boyfriends type and it’s killing me.

↑ 26 💬 33 text 2026

I need advice my boyfriend wants a threesome

↑ 24 💬 142 text 2026

I, 28F and my husband 28M waited till marriage to have sex but we are having trouble with sex

↑ 18 💬 56 text 2026

Is it an unrealistic expectation not want my partner to watch porn?

↑ 17 💬 60 question 2026

I saw my bfs text with a girl I don't really feel good about

↑ 16 💬 82 image 2026

My partner told his mom something I told him not to share with anyone.

↑ 13 💬 15 text 2026

Communities its size

Within four times the member count either way, so the comparison is fair. Sorted by upside.

r/relationships_advice, in numbers

Answered from the posts ViralHunt holds from this community, not from Reddit's own about page.

How many members does r/relationships_advice have?
r/relationships_advice has about 112.4K members. ViralHunt has tracked 303 of its posts; the biggest reached 118 upvotes, which is 1 per 1,000 members.
What is the most viral post on r/relationships_advice?
"Am I overreacting?" reached 118 upvotes and 94 comments in 2026, the highest score among the posts we hold from r/relationships_advice.
What subreddits are similar to r/relationships_advice?
Communities of a comparable size we track: r/greenland, r/Leakednews, r/LetsDiscussThis, r/stevehofstetter, r/StrikeAtPsyche, r/PopularCultureZone.
What kind of posts do best on r/relationships_advice?
Of the posts we hold, 62% are text posts and 35% are question posts.
When is the best time to post on r/relationships_advice?
Across 303 timestamped posts we hold, the slots whose posts averaged the highest score are Wednesday at 06:00 UTC (28 avg upvotes), Tuesday at 23:00 UTC (9 avg upvotes), Wednesday at 22:00 UTC (7 avg upvotes). The busiest day is Thursday. For Reddit as a whole, see the best time to post on Reddit page.
How many upvotes does a post need to reach the top of r/relationships_advice?
The 20th-best post we hold from r/relationships_advice has 4 upvotes, so that is roughly the bar for the top twenty. We captured 303 posts from it in the last 30 days.

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Every figure here is what ViralHunt has captured from r/relationships_advice, not everything the community has ever posted. We deliberately do not publish an average score: our sample is weighted toward a community's best posts, so an average would be flattering and wrong. Peak per 1,000 members is computed the same way for every community listed. See how we measure.