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15.8M members. The best post we have captured here reached 1.5K upvotes, which works out to 0 per 1,000 members.

0peak upvotes per 1,000 members
15.8Mmembers
1.5Kbest post
743most comments
300posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

58% 42%
Question 58% Text 42%

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

I (19m) want to leave my gender neutral partner (18m/f) for someone more feminine

↑ 1.5K πŸ’¬ 286 text 2026

Update: My f21 bf m20 h!t me hard on my arm and i cried for almost an hour

↑ 1.3K πŸ’¬ 144 text 2026

My (24F) girlfriend told me I am ruining her life because I (24M)!asked her to move out.

↑ 1.1K πŸ’¬ 198 text 2026

My (M27) girlfriend (F30) has quite bad body odour and I have hinted quite a few times to use deodorant, but she doesn't apply it to where the smell …

↑ 1.1K πŸ’¬ 545 question 2026

UPDATE: I(18M)found out that my(19F)girlfriend has been cheating on me with her best friend’s husband

↑ 1K πŸ’¬ 74 text 2026

I (25m) can hear my neighbor (20f) crying through our apartment wall and I want to check on her. Do you think it would break her privacy?

↑ 938 πŸ’¬ 81 question 2026

My parents (69M, 65F) won't come to my wedding because I (30M) won't invite my brother (32M) or my ex-wife (30F)?

↑ 909 πŸ’¬ 328 question 2026

I (20F) haven’t spoken to my brother (22M) or his wife (22F) in two weeks after they expressed an upsetting opinion of me. How do I move forward?

↑ 834 πŸ’¬ 156 question 2026

Why do I (18f) feel like I need to pee during sex with my boyfriend (19m), and how can I stop it?

↑ 821 πŸ’¬ 380 question 2026

Title: My boyfriend of almost 3 years has not spoken to me since Saturday. How do I handle this? F23 and M25

↑ 806 πŸ’¬ 250 question 2026

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