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103.5K members. The best post we have captured here reached 105 upvotes, which works out to 1 per 1,000 members.

1peak upvotes per 1,000 members
103.5Kmembers
105best post
103most comments
306posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

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What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

How do you continue being friends with people when you realize you don’t seem to matter to them as much as they matter to you?

↑ 105 💬 43 question 2026

I feel like nobody cares to maintain and invest in friendships anymore?

↑ 75 💬 19 question 2026

My friend is so desperate

↑ 69 💬 28 text 2026

How to gently end friendship with autistic friend?

↑ 63 💬 49 question 2026

What are your hard lines in friendship, what are you willing to compromise?

↑ 31 💬 42 question 2026

Make friends with older people

↑ 30 💬 9 text 2026

Does a wedding trump a baby shower?

↑ 26 💬 103 question 2026

What is it that makes you realize you've lost a genuinely good friend/connection?

↑ 25 💬 24 question 2026

„Ja klar, das kenne ich!“ Meine Freundin kennt JEDEN Ort, JEDEN Film und JEDES Weingut (auch wenn es unmöglich ist). Habt ihr auch so jemanden im Kre…

↑ 14 💬 6 question 2026

Adult friendships are so weird

↑ 13 💬 5 text 2026

Communities its size

Within four times the member count either way, so the comparison is fair. Sorted by upside.

r/FriendshipAdvice, in numbers

Answered from the posts ViralHunt holds from this community, not from Reddit's own about page.

How many members does r/FriendshipAdvice have?
r/FriendshipAdvice has about 103.5K members. ViralHunt has tracked 306 of its posts; the biggest reached 105 upvotes, which is 1 per 1,000 members.
What is the most viral post on r/FriendshipAdvice?
"How do you continue being friends with people when you realize you don’t seem to matter to them as much as they matter to you?" reached 105 upvotes and 43 comments in 2026, the highest score among the posts we hold from r/FriendshipAdvice.
What subreddits are similar to r/FriendshipAdvice?
Communities of a comparable size we track: r/greenland, r/Leakednews, r/LetsDiscussThis, r/stevehofstetter, r/StrikeAtPsyche, r/PopularCultureZone.
What kind of posts do best on r/FriendshipAdvice?
Of the posts we hold, 60% are text posts and 40% are question posts.
When is the best time to post on r/FriendshipAdvice?
Across 306 timestamped posts we hold, the slots whose posts averaged the highest score are Wednesday at 03:00 UTC (23 avg upvotes), Wednesday at 21:00 UTC (19 avg upvotes), Wednesday at 05:00 UTC (19 avg upvotes). The busiest day is Thursday. For Reddit as a whole, see the best time to post on Reddit page.
How many upvotes does a post need to reach the top of r/FriendshipAdvice?
The 20th-best post we hold from r/FriendshipAdvice has 7 upvotes, so that is roughly the bar for the top twenty. We captured 306 posts from it in the last 30 days.

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Every figure here is what ViralHunt has captured from r/FriendshipAdvice, not everything the community has ever posted. We deliberately do not publish an average score: our sample is weighted toward a community's best posts, so an average would be flattering and wrong. Peak per 1,000 members is computed the same way for every community listed. See how we measure.