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6.3M members. The best post we have captured here reached 1.4K upvotes, which works out to 0 per 1,000 members.

0peak upvotes per 1,000 members
6.3Mmembers
1.4Kbest post
1.1Kmost comments
300posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

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Question 56% Text 44%

The topics it labels

Flairs are the community's own categories, and the closest thing a subreddit has to telling you what it wants.

Question ❓ 116 I Need Advice 😩 92 Just Venting 😮‍💨 57 Support Needed 🫂 25 Giving Advice 💌 8 Success Story 🎉 2

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

How many of you would rather stay single than “settle” for less?

↑ 1.4K 💬 1.1K question 2026

As a man it’s fair for women to want financial stability

↑ 990 💬 384 text 2026

Finland introduces a supermarket where single people take a pink basket, indicating they're up for meeting someone.

↑ 898 💬 323 text 2026

Women just stare into your soul when they like you

↑ 828 💬 193 text 2026

I think men and women might see male attractiveness pretty differently

↑ 646 💬 413 text 2026

Men who just want to be husbands

↑ 616 💬 538 text 2026

Things a grown man [44M] I [31F] met a week ago told me:

↑ 612 💬 174 text 2026

Update: WE'RE DATING NOW, tell that man you like him!

↑ 539 💬 71 text 2026

“Never ask a man out. If he doesn’t ask you out accept that he’s not interested and move on.”

↑ 524 💬 376 text 2026

I always ask the woman I'm having sex with what's the plan she gets pregnant.

↑ 501 💬 139 text 2026

Communities its size

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Every figure here is what ViralHunt has captured from r/dating, not everything the community has ever posted. We deliberately do not publish an average score: our sample is weighted toward a community's best posts, so an average would be flattering and wrong. Peak per 1,000 members is computed the same way for every community listed. See how we measure.