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445.4K members. The best post we have captured here reached 1.1K upvotes, which works out to 2 per 1,000 members.

2peak upvotes per 1,000 members
445.4Kmembers
1.1Kbest post
485most comments
300posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

87% 13%
Question 87% Text 13%

The topics it labels

Flairs are the community's own categories, and the closest thing a subreddit has to telling you what it wants.

Life/Self/Spirituality 82 Romance/Relationships 78 Friendships 38 Career/Education/Finance 24 Beauty/Fashion 22 Misc Discussion 20 Family/Parenting 15 Silly Stuff 7 Hobbies/Travel/Recreation 7 Current Events 4

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

Women who are in healthy but very boring long term relationships, how do you manage?

↑ 1.1K 💬 109 question 2026

Is anyone else feeling 'off' !?

↑ 743 💬 189 question 2026

Brother in law is talking about wanting a soft and feminine wife out of nowhere, is this a manosphere thing?

↑ 654 💬 114 question 2026

Has anyone else just stopped enjoying talking to people?

↑ 363 💬 75 question 2026

No one else in my circles blew up their old life in their late 30s. How do I stop feeling like a black sheep?

↑ 331 💬 62 question 2026

Did you find love later in your 30s?

↑ 280 💬 130 question 2026

Why do so many people only want friends when they're single?

↑ 278 💬 206 question 2026

Am I doing something wrong trying to host a group dinner, or are my friends just being weird?

↑ 273 💬 237 question 2026

How do you stay in shape after 35 if you were never naturally skinny?

↑ 272 💬 224 question 2026

Am I better off single? Just realizing I have no business being married.

↑ 269 💬 219 question 2026

Communities its size

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