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32.2K members. The best post we have captured here reached 122 upvotes, which works out to 4 per 1,000 members.

4peak upvotes per 1,000 members
32.2Kmembers
122best post
132most comments
302posts we track

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What actually lands here

The mix of post types among everything we have captured. Posting a link where almost nothing but images lands is wasted effort, and this is the fastest way to see it.

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Text 50% Question 25% Link 21% Image 2% Video 1% Gallery 1%

The topics it labels

Flairs are the community's own categories, and the closest thing a subreddit has to telling you what it wants.

Vent/Rant 36 DA Breakup 29 Avoidant Advice Requested 20 FA Breakup 19 Personal Growth 11 Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work 5 From FA’s Perspective 4 DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ 3 FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ 2 Poll 1

What the ceiling looks like

The biggest posts we have captured here. Links go to the original on Reddit.

Loving an avoidant is telling them, "Every time I see something beautiful I want you to see it too." And they reply, "Why can't you just enjoy it wit…

↑ 122 💬 18 question 2026

I'm the avoidant and I almost lost the most important person in my life. Seeking resources and tips

↑ 116 💬 67 text 2026

The amount of broken hearts and crushed souls I see online by getting brutally dumped by an avoidant is crazy to me

↑ 115 💬 34 text 2026

Would you erase your avoidant ex from your memory, or was the pain necessary for your growth?

↑ 86 💬 132 question 2026

anyone else have a breakdown every now and then while thinking about their ex ?

↑ 69 💬 25 question 2026

No chemistry

↑ 69 💬 75 text 2026

Read this if you were discarded / ghosted after being a good partner

↑ 60 💬 8 text 2026

Nobody villainizes you more than a person that knows you've clocked who they really are and not who they are pretending to be.

↑ 50 💬 10 text 2026

How would you guys interpret this response?

↑ 47 💬 41 image 2026

How has dating an avoidant messed you up?

↑ 47 💬 78 question 2026

Communities its size

Within four times the member count either way, so the comparison is fair. Sorted by upside.

r/AvoidantBreakUps, in numbers

Answered from the posts ViralHunt holds from this community, not from Reddit's own about page.

How many members does r/AvoidantBreakUps have?
r/AvoidantBreakUps has about 32.2K members. ViralHunt has tracked 302 of its posts; the biggest reached 122 upvotes, which is 4 per 1,000 members.
What is the most viral post on r/AvoidantBreakUps?
"Loving an avoidant is telling them, "Every time I see something beautiful I want you to see it too." And they reply, "Why can't you just enj" reached 122 upvotes and 18 comments in 2026, the highest score among the posts we hold from r/AvoidantBreakUps.
What subreddits are similar to r/AvoidantBreakUps?
Communities of a comparable size we track: r/teslastockholders, r/TheMirrorCult, r/CzechCoconutCommunity, r/InterviewMan, r/news2, r/bondmarket.
What kind of posts do best on r/AvoidantBreakUps?
Of the posts we hold, 50% are text posts and 25% are question posts.
When is the best time to post on r/AvoidantBreakUps?
Across 302 timestamped posts we hold, the slots whose posts averaged the highest score are Thursday at 22:00 UTC (25 avg upvotes), Thursday at 04:00 UTC (23 avg upvotes), Friday at 18:00 UTC (18 avg upvotes). The busiest day is Friday. For Reddit as a whole, see the best time to post on Reddit page.
How many upvotes does a post need to reach the top of r/AvoidantBreakUps?
The 20th-best post we hold from r/AvoidantBreakUps has 24 upvotes, so that is roughly the bar for the top twenty. We captured 302 posts from it in the last 30 days.

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Every figure here is what ViralHunt has captured from r/AvoidantBreakUps, not everything the community has ever posted. We deliberately do not publish an average score: our sample is weighted toward a community's best posts, so an average would be flattering and wrong. Peak per 1,000 members is computed the same way for every community listed. See how we measure.